The educator and author Dr. Julia Hare speaks — with humor and force — on the endurance of Black relationships “four hundred years later,” invoking Malcolm X’s line that “Plymouth Rock landed on you” and her book How to Find and Keep a BMW: A Black Man Working. She argues that systems have long worked to divide Black men and women precisely because their unity is a source of strength, and traces a line from the removal of discipline in the home and school to the funneling of Black boys into special education and, ultimately, prison. A spirited call to reclaim family, discipline, and community.